Title: Domestic Violence Victimization
Series: Help Series Brochure
Author: Office for Victims of Crime
Published: February 2002
Subject: victims, victim assistance, domestic violence
5 pages
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OVC Help Series

Domestic Violence Victimization

Office for Victims of Crime
OVC
Advocating for the Fair Treatment of Crime Victims

The National Center for Victims of Crime

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What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence is not a private matter. It is a serious crime and public
health concern that can include physical, sexual, psychological, or
emotional abuse of one current or former intimate partner by another. You
can be a victim of domestic violence no matter how old you are, what your
racial or cultural background may be, what type of education you have,
how much money you have, or what your religious beliefs may be.

Domestic violence is usually not a single event and often becomes more
severe and frequent over time. Many batterers are not violent in other
relationships, such as at work or with friends. They routinely deny the
domestic violence and the severity of that violence. When confronted with
their abusive behavior, they tend to blame their partner for provoking it or
refuse to accept responsibility for it.

Many factors may contribute to abuse. Some batterers lack the ability to
control their actions and do not know how to react appropriately and
nonviolently to stress and dissatisfaction. A need for power and control, an
abusive family background, feelings of inadequacy, and stress all may
contribute to abusive behavior. Alcoholism or drug abuse do not cause
domestic violence, but being drunk or high does intensify existing violent
behaviors.


Domestic violence victims suffer physical injuries that endanger their
health and may result in lifelong disabilities. These injuries may interfere
with job performance and result in dismissal or lost promotion
opportunities. Besides physical violence, abusers may use emotional and
verbal abuse, isolation, and threats to maintain power and control over
their partners. Threats, whether of violence, suicide, or taking away
children, are a very common tactic used by batterers.

The emotional effects of domestic violence can often be more devastating
than the physical assaults. Victims may lose touch with friends and family
due to abusers' attempts to isolate them. As a victim's support system
breaks down, so does his or her self-esteem. Domestic violence affects
every family member, even if he or she has not been abused.

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If You Are a Victim of Domestic Violence

The most difficult step for you to take is to admit that you are being or
have been abused by your partner. Remember, your partner's violence is
the problem, not you. You do not provoke it. You do not deserve it.

You may feel trapped, alone, and that you have lost control of your life.
You may have nightmares or flashbacks of abusive incidents. Your eating
and sleeping habits may change. You may feel depressed or hopeless and
lack interest in things you once enjoyed. The physical and emotional
suffering you experience may seem to use up all the energy you have.

Your safety is the first priority, and only you can truly judge what will be
the safest and best way to handle your situation. Leaving an abusive
relationship is not always the safest solution. Many domestic assaults
occur while a victim is trying to leave the relationship. If you are being
abused, you should consider all options when trying to find a way to end
the violence as safely as possible.

Every person in an abusive relationship needs a safety plan that has been
developed for that person's situation and circumstances. Domestic violence
shelters and advocates can help you develop one for your situation. If you
feel it is safe, let trusted friends and family know about your situation.
They can be part of your safety plan. Know where to get help. Tell
someone what is happening to you.

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Where can you get help?

Remember, as a domestic violence victim, you are not alone. Do not lose
hope. The support network in your community may include counseling
services, hotlines, support groups, legal resources, and shelters that can
give you support, advice, financial assistance, counseling, and legal help.

Your local women's center, shelter, or domestic violence program can help
you obtain protection or restraining orders from local law enforcement and 
family court offices. There are several types of restraining orders. The
types of restraining orders available and the process for application and
issuance of orders varies with each community. Local domestic violence
advocates can give you information about how the process works in your
community. Advocates also can help you find out what your rights are as a
domestic violence victim and provide you with other important
information and a full range of victim support services, such as
counseling, emotional support, and financial assistance. To find the name
and telephone number of a domestic violence advocate near you, call the
National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE
(1-800-799-7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).

All states now have crime victim compensation programs that reimburse
victims for certain out-of-pocket expenses, including medical expenses,
lost wages, and other financial needs considered reasonable. To be
eligible, you must report the crime to the police and cooperate with the
criminal justice system. Victim assistance programs in your community
can give you compensation applications and additional information.

Many communities also have batterers' programs, which help abusers
learn how to control themselves. Participation in these programs is often a
court-ordered condition when batterers are convicted on domestic violence
charges. It is important to realize that the abuser is the only one who can
change his or her violent behavior.

Domestic violence victims are usually strong survivors. With adequate
resources and support, they can create new lives.

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What are the facts about domestic violence?

o From one-fifth to one-third of all women will be physically assaulted by
a partner or ex-partner during their lifetime. ("Violence Against Women:
Relevance for Medical Practitioners." Journal of the American Medical
Association 267(23): 1992)


o Intimate partner violence made up 22 percent of the violent crimes
against women between 1993 and 1998. (Intimate Partner Violence.
Washington, DC: Bureau of Justice Statistics, 2000)

o In 1998, women experienced about 900,000 violent offenses at the hands
of an intimate partner, and men were victims of about 160,000 violent
crimes by an intimate partner. (Intimate Partner Violence. Washington,
DC: Bureau of Justice Statistics, 2000)

o In 1998, one-half of the female intimate violence victims were
physically injured, and 37 percent sought professional medical treatment.
(Intimate Partner Violence. Washington, DC: Bureau of Justice Statistics,
2000)

o A study of more than 1,000 high school students found that 45.5 percent
of girls and 43.2 percent of boys reported being the victim of violence
from dating partners at least once. (O'Keefe, Maura, and Laura Trester.
"Victims of Dating Violence Among High School Students." Violence
Against Women 4(2): 195-223, 1998)

o In 1999, 32 percent of all female murder victims were killed by their
current or former spouses or boyfriends, whereas 3 percent of male murder
victims were killed by their current or former spouses or girlfriends.
(Crime in the United States 1999. Washington, DC: Federal Bureau of
Investigation, 2000)

o Among women, being black, young, divorced, or separated; earning
lower incomes; living in rental housing; and living in an urban area were
all associated with higher rates of intimate partner victimization between
1993 and 1998. (Intimate Partner Violence. Washington, DC: Bureau of
Justice Statistics, 2000)

o During 1997, the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs
(NCAVP) documented 3,327 cases of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and
transgender domestic violence victimization. Men reported 1,746 of the
incidents, women reported 1,581 of the incidents. (Annual Report on
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Domestic Violence. New York,
NY: National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, 1998)

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Resources for Information and Assistance

Advocates for Abused and Battered Lesbians

206-547-8191 (TTY response on request)
www.aabl.org

Family Violence Prevention Fund
1-888-RX-ABUSE or 1-888-792-2873
www.fvpf.org

National Center for Victims of Crime
1-800-FYI-CALL or 1-800-394-2255
www.ncvc.org

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
303-839-1852
www.ncadv.org

National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE or 1-800-799-7233
TTY 1-800-787-3224
www.ndvh.org

National Organization for Victim Assistance
1-800-TRY-NOVA or 1-800-879-6682
www.try-nova.org

Office for Victims of Crime Resource Center
1-800-627-6872
TTY 1-877-712-9279
www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/ovcres/welcome.html

Violence Against Women Office
202-307-6026
www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo

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This brochure was developed by the National Center for Victims of Crime
under a project supported by Grant No. 97-VF-GX-K007 awarded by the
Office for Victims of Crime, Office of Justice Programs, U.S. Department
of Justice. Points of view in this document are those of the author and do
not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the U.S.
Department of Justice.